"... when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."
-- When Harry met Sally

"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed."
-- Carl Jung

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Memories (S)

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As dymion and I our quickly approaching our one-year anniversary together, I find myself quite nostalgic as of late. Smells, sounds, tastes...everything seems to be richer, more exciting, more perfect than ever before. So many things in my daily life bring on reminiscent waves of that delicious rush I felt when I first encountered my beautiful prince. Everything is etched so clearly in my mind...snapshots of the moments that have brought us to where we are today. My mind is so in love and so grateful for the present, but often I enjoy reexamining the past...where we began...what connected us from the start.

In that spirit, I turn to a memory that holds a place deep in my heart...dymion and I started our communication in the form of sending one another daily emails of inspirational quotes. I think it was a way of trying to express the feelings that were growing within us that we lacked the initial courage to express directly. This started our journey into discovery of what types of sentiments touched us, inspired us, and often defined us. Though we talked of philosophy, love, and the occasional subtle hints of lust and sexuality, we never directly touched upon what we truly wanted to say so, od course, the bdsm lifestyle was never within our exchanges.

As we reach that one-year milestone, I wanted to share some awesome bdsm quotes. I share these thoughts in honor of the life dymion -my precious pet- and I are building together. It is a relationship based on raw emotion, honesty, and an appreciation for a lifestyle that has taken us both on the most amazing adventure...enjoy!

There was no reality to pain when it left one, though while it held one fast all other realities faded.- Rachel Field

Thou art to me a delicious torment.- Ralph Waldo Emerson

To be sensual, I think, is to respect and rejoice in the force of life, of life itself and so to be present in all that one does, from the effort of loving to the breaking of bread.- James Baldwin

Ultimately, the purpose of a flogging is to inflict pleasure.-
Mitch Kessler

Subspace is my perfect paradise vacation from busy-mind... blessed be to the Dominant who can stamp my ticket there.- Elizabeth

Stars hid your fires. Let not light see my black and deep desires.- From The Talented Mr. Ripley

How blessed am I in this discovering thee. To enter in these bonds is to be free. - John Donne

If ever thou be'st bound in thy scarf and beaten, thou shalt find what it is to be proud of thy bondage. - William Shakespeare

Once you familiarize yourself with the chains of bondage, you prepare your own limbs to wear them. - Abraham Lincoln

No kind of sensation is keener and more active than pain it's impressions are unmistakable. - Marquis De Sade

It is not enough to conquer; one must learn to seduce.- Voltaire

Not everyone is lucky enough to understand how delicious it is to suffer. - Katherine Hepburn


  1. "Smells, sounds, tastes...everything seems to be richer, more exciting, more perfect than ever before." I know this feeling so well! True love can do that! Best wishes to you both on your upcoming anniversary!


  2. Happy Anniversary!

    I'm really happy for you two.
    You are two rich people and you know why?
    Because you are so much in love!
    There's nothing more you need.
    Enjoy it and make it last for ever!

  3. HMP, Ms. Alice,

    Thank you both for your good wishes.

    Ms. Alice, it's an honor to have you visiting and leave a comment on our blog. Thank you for the compliment. And we will enjoy it and (try to) make it last forever!

    HMP, nice to have you drop by again... we always enjoy your thoughts.