"... when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."
-- When Harry met Sally

"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed."
-- Carl Jung

Thursday, November 12, 2009

The dominance of her tenderness (E)

Artwork courtesy of Flat Earth Social Club

Sometimes real life will shake each one of us to the core. Disappointment, bitterness, anger, stress of what may happen, how it will happen, when it will happen... And when real life does affect us that way, it is important for one of the partners to step up and, for some time, carry both people.

Yesterday was one of those days. And my Goddess certainly stepped up in terms of patience, support, and understanding. She is the light that keeps me going, the hope that allows me to recover and overcome any obstacle, and that makes anything and everything possible.

And without any pain, any teasing, any overtly dominant behavior, feeling her unconditional support in such a way makes me want to serve her, worship her, and submit to her more desperately than anything that would be traditional BDSM scenes. It has deepened my dedication and my submission to her even further.

Beyond everything my Goddess and I experience on our life's journey, with D/s as its lifestyle, that kind of love and support is just as important as power exchange dynamics, and reinforce the dynamics in an incredibly powerful way.

And for all of that, I am deeply and eternally grateful to have my Goddess in my life, and to be part of hers.

1 comment:

  1. Great post!In the past year several FLR blogs have popped up.Some are better then others.I think that the best ones are the ones that are realistic and focus on the everyday aspects of life.

    Maybe its just me , but i find caring and love and tenderness to be the most erotic things on Earth.too many Female Supremacy websites forget this.Theres nothing wrong with a little playfull BSDM.But too often some websites go overboard on the sadism.

    Maybe im old fashioned ,but a photo of a woman angirly spitting on a naked male does nothing for me.But a fully clothed woman oggling her naked husband with a smile of affection on her face is exxtremly sexy to me.It's the playfullness and the loving that appeals to me.

    Thank you for talking about the affectionate and tender side of a Wife -Led Marriage
    Sincerly BOB