Artwork courtesy of Flat Earth Social Club... reminding me of moments when my Goddess calls me her toy...I've enjoyed reading in the comments of the last few days how much some of you appreciate the value of the little things that make a relationship so special. At the same time, going back to my Goddess' posts, she is far too modest in the description and feelings of what she has done for me lately. So among all the little things she does that I enjoy so much, here are a few of the BDSM-oriented little things, most of which have only happened or come into their own in the last two weeks, that not only keep me in a constant state of intoxicated love and submissiveness to her, but increase my passion and addiction to her each and every day...
- She wakes me up in the middle of the night with some NT and CBT because she needs me to provide her with sexual service...
- She enjoyed me kissing her feet so much a few mornings ago, something that I did only when the mood seemed right, that she told me that kissing her feet was now a required part of our morning ritual...
- She wakes me up in the middle of the night with some NT and CBT because... well, just because I'm there, and I'm her toy, and she feels like hurting me, and she wants to hear and feel my reactions...
- She finds an opportunity every single day to pull me in by the leash very close to her and telling me "mine!"...
- She decided that we couldn't have our weekend afternoon nap without me having some colors and and some marks on my bottom, so she warmed me up with a variety of paddles, and then used the cane until she was happy with her artwork...
- She very rarely misses an opportunity to remind me of her control over me with some impromptu NT, regardless of where we are or what we are doing...
- She always makes me feel that she enjoys the placing and locking of the leather collar on me each day, and me wearing the collar until the next time we leave our house, at least as much as I do...
- And I just melt when, after she's locked the collar and I start pulling away slowly, she reaches over quickly to grab a hold of one of the D-rings, and she pulls me back in for a kiss... or two... or a dozen...
- When she corrects me with playful dominant indignity that she's always right...
- Anytime she pulls on my hair... just because...
When I'm missing her, "...I simply remember my favorite things..."
Rituals like feet kissing are important in a relationship because it reminds both participants why their life together is so special. Rituals like the daily collaring, feet kissing, etc. Once you remind her by these rituals the "little" things like NT, hair-pulling, etc. just come naturally. I practice many rituals with my SO.
ReplyDeleteDave,
ReplyDeleteRitual is the background against which creativity and self-expression come to be. They are an essential part of the continued energy between the peaks, and as such, play a huge part in our relationship.
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Dymion