"... when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."
-- When Harry met Sally

"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed."
-- Carl Jung

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Build our scene - part 3 (E)

Artwork courtesy of Femdom Artists

Our anonymous reader has a third comment that is really adding several segments to the scene. And yes, we are interested in you continuing your suggestions, Anonymous, and in everyone else's ideas and suggestions.

In what is part exhibitionistic exercise, part curiosity, and part change of pace for us, we have up to now:
  1. whipping/flogging until whining and begging
  2. shaving of the pubic area while in restraints
  3. some feminine clothing
  4. hand and foot service (drawn out)
The anticipation for playing the scene out this weekend is growing exponentially. My Goddess has already been dominantly teasing me about it. The order, content, and the flow will, of course, be a matter of her inspiration and what she's in the mood for.

The shaving could be a scene in itself. This is an area that we haven't venture in, and my Goddess' reaction was "I am so doing that!"

While neither one of us is into scripted scenes, having a bunch of activities to choose from and string together, with new twists and potentially new activities, will be exciting and fun for my Goddess. And if my Goddess enjoys herself, then I will certainly get a huge kick out of it. Just a matter of getting into different groove.

We'll each share our perspective in a blog entry after it's done. In the meantime, don't be shy. Let us have your ideas. Beside, we may end up with several scenes...


  1. Goddess, are you all powerful or are you just playing the role to please your partner. No judgement here either way. A lot is said about not letting a submissive have an orgasm...I do not subscribe to this. From many years of personal experience if you want to find out how truly powerful you are: you can test it by what you make you slave do after he has that orgasm. Now remember the all men crash when they orgasm...mother nature and there is nothing you can do about that...but if you are truly powerful you, can determine how long that break last. Ie....Fifteen minutes after his orgasm you make your slave get back in his sub state of mind and continue as if nothing has happened. If you can do this then you truly are his Ruler.....if not you are just playing a role....as i said there is no judgement from me either way....whatever roles the two of you have decided on should not be anyones concern.....BUT if you can and do, do what i have described then you will always be the true power in the relationship.

  2. If you are going to play out this happening over the entire weekend, life will rear its ugly head. She will have some mundane thing she needs to do...or maybe she just wants some me time...what to do ?....PARK him; after all he is the slave his wants are not truly important but you do want to retain your total dominance over him....may I suggest putting him naked on the floor of a dark closet..the less room the better. during this time he can let his mind run wild but sooner or later he will begin to count to minutes hoping you will come for him.....maybe you need to call an old friend for a nice chat...maybe a long walk or any thing else that is entirly SELF Centered.I would suggest a minimum of an hour..He will touch himself during this time unless you forbid it..of course the decision is yours. Of course it goes without saying that even if alowwed to touch himself he must not orgasam.