"... when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."
-- When Harry met Sally

"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed."
-- Carl Jung

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Leaving the house... wearing the locked collar (E)

Artwork courtesy of http://lunarblack.tumblr.com/

This morning, my Goddess sent me out on an errand. Wearing my locked leather collar.

Now this wasn't going to be high-risk. It was kind of chilly outside, so I could wear a fleece with a bit of a collar, and I was just doing a drive-thru gig.

Still very exciting for me. First of all, it was great to have my Goddess remind me first thing this morning that she was leaving my collar longer than usual today. Then having her order me to go run an errand while still wearing the collar was very hot. And it was uber-hot when she announced this morning that "You're getting tied up tonight".

And I never tire of wearing the collar for her. It's just so full symbolism, and it makes me so proud.

What I found out when I returned, was that my Goddess was a little nervous while I was away, in case I got into a car accident. Kind of awkward to explain the locked collar as the EMTs are checking you out for injury. But I was discreet, and careful, and I made it home OK.

And feeling even a little more submissive than usual...


  1. Owner has two collars for me. One is a thick indoor collar with D ring attachments and the other is a thin leather dog-style collar that i have to wear whenever i go out, apart from at work. As the weather gets warmer and the t-shirts/blouses come out i definitely feel a lot more self-conscious wearing it as it no longer gets 'hidden'.

  2. perfect escalation of control. my wife hasn't quite gotten to the point of being that agressive. we did once go for a walk in the dark with my collar on but that was awhile ago.

  3. HP: there's an element of self-consciousness and required societal discretion in going out with a collar that might be visible, but in counter-balance for me, there's an element of pride and joy, and excitement, in wearing it. I would be delighted to show it and explain it to the whole world if I could (and not suffer for it).

    tss: indeed, it's even better when my Goddess is with me when I'm wearing the larger, non-mainstream collar outside where someone might see it. The D/s energy is just fantastic. Perhaps with time, your wife will take more initiative and enjoy herself. Good luck.