"... when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."
-- When Harry met Sally

"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed."
-- Carl Jung

Saturday, March 20, 2010

A Noteworthy Revelation (S)

In all the months I have been tying my precious pet to various things, finding new ways to torment him, and striving to get him to his ultimate subspace, a simple maneuver had escaped me until just recently. In a bed where I had no headboard to use or any easily accessible bed frames, I suddently realized I could tie his hands to the rings on his own collar to restrict movement. (Yes, I know you have probably all done this before, but I had seriously never really thought about it)

Anyway, when I had clipped his wrists to the extra rings on the sides of the collar, I looked at him with amazement...I'm sure the poor blind folded fella was perplexed at the silence as I simply sat and stared at how awesome he looked. He couldn't protect the delicate areas I love to touch, he really couldnt roll himself over easily. He was really forced to lay there, trust, and anticipate.

It was a simple, yet perfect, move. Suddenly, I was completely excited. Not just about the position, as hot as it was, but at the endless possible predicaments I continue to find to make scenes unique for the two of us. Once you think you tried it all something else right in front of your face appears and you realize, "wow, that's hot, too!"

I will be with dymion for the rest of my life...this wonderful man...and I can honestly say I have no worries of boredom. Every scene is a little different, every sound he makes effects me in a different way, every flogger, cane, crop, etc has just a tiny bit of a different feel in my hand and on his warm skin. 30 more years to come? 40 more years to come? Bring it on! The sex is awesome, the bondage is tight, and there is no sensation that will be left unfelt. The options are limitless and I don't mind the journey to find each and every one.

Life rocks and so does my darling pet, dymion. I love him and the life we are building together.


  1. So nice to hear from your perspective, Selena. And I am so glad to hear you are delighting in your experiences. You two have something really great together.

    I would like to hear from you about how your emotion builds during your time together, and how it drives your actions. How do you decide when you're done, when he's served your purpose.

    Thank you.

  2. This is my first D/s relationship and I never anticipated the strong range of emotions it would bring to the surface. I am beyond attached to dymion and, both in and out of the scene, time together has continued to intensify my love for him. It can be scary sometimes, but absolutely wonderful. As confident as I try to be, he often has to reassure me that this is, in fact, how awesome it can be for the rest of my life. Sigh...pretty cool.

    During a scene, the emotions and feelings build quickly. Time seems to stop. It seems we are the only two people in the world. It is hard to describe how I know when it is time to begin cooling off from intensity. Sometimes it is when I am sexually satisfied or sometimes I know when he has hit his limits. We have learned to read each other well which has allowed us to continue to play with very few scene crashers or subdrop. When it is right it works itself out. I am very fortunate in that.

    As much as he is willing to serve my purpose without concern for his own needs, I really need him to enjoy this time of submission or it isn't hot to me. This is probably why intese humiliation has never really been my thing.

    I really appreciate you taking the time to make a comment. Others thoughts and questions help us to reflect and examine our actions which keeps us all healthy.

    Take care and play safe. --Selena