"... when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."
-- When Harry met Sally

"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed."
-- Carl Jung

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

The joys of control at a distance (E)

A few weeks back, my Goddess was feeling particularly controlling and possessive. As I dropped her off at work, she requested that I go back home, put on the ankle cuffs, lock them on, and wear them until we were together again at the end of the day.

Shortly after I returned home, I received a text message asking me if I had done what she had asked. I sent her the picture above...

She got such a kick out of the picture! There they were, exactly as she had demanded. The little things that make her (and me) happy...

The tangible feeling of her control, her ownership, and my belonging to her through the sensation of the locked cuffs is incredibly special. I absolutely love it whenever she asks me to wear bondage gear under my clothing. I just can't stop thinking about it, reaching for it, thinking of what happened when she had used it on me last, and anticipating what may come. Knowing that my Goddess is excited thinking about the fact that I am wearing, for her, bondage gear that I can't remove is just so totally hot.

Aaah... the little joys of another day in the life of a loving D/s couple...


  1. Very nice! I make sissy wear certain items under his vanilla clothing - I think I'll have to add the cuffs :) Great picture.

  2. That's very hot. I love the idea that at a moment's notice domination can be asserted is very sexy.

    Frankly, I long for it more and more...

  3. Ms. Marie,

    I'm glad you could find inspiration and ideas from our day. It is hard to believe that there is yet more he will need to endure... Lucky guy.

    Thanks for the compliment on the picture... Barely a glimpse, I know, but there is it.

    Thank you for dropping by.


  4. Aarkey,

    Those spur-of-the-moment domination moments can be so powerful. And I'm very lucky that my Goddess is so creative and can come up with these out of the blue.

    It sounds like you have your hands quite full these days being a house slave at Command Performance. Do you know how many submissive males are envious of your situation? Enjoy that ride while you have such an extraordinary opportunity.

    As always, thanks for dropping by.


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