"... when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."
-- When Harry met Sally

"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed."
-- Carl Jung

Friday, October 29, 2010

Collar stories - 2 (E)

Artwork courtesy of Detours

It's pretty obvious for anyone that has read a handful of our posts that my Goddess and I place a very high significance on the symbolism of the locked leather collar that she places around my neck every evening, and that she removes the next time we prepare to go to work. Or before the next shower, if we have a day off. Or before someone comes over to the house.

During the last few weeks, I've been driving my Goddess to work early in the morning before coming back home and getting ready myself. And most mornings, my Goddess has been having us leave the house before removing the collar.

With the advent of the cooler weather and heavier clothes, it has been easier to keep the collar, its D-rings, and the hanging lock in back, relatively hidden from sight when leaving the house. In fact, if someone knew it was there, and looked for it, they would catch a glimpse of it sooner or later because it can't be hidden perfectly unless I wear a turtleneck and a scarf.

But the collar has stayed on because both of us enjoy the sight and the significance of the locked leather collar so much, and it extents part of my Goddess' control and ownership of me another 15-20 minutes. It is unlikely anybody will have a good enough look at it to make out what it is, except maybe the drive-thru person serving us my Goddess' morning cappucino (and they normally don't have much time to chat).

Just before dropping off my Goddess, I park the car very close to her work for a minute or so, we look around briefly in case anyone is looking at us, I lean over her lap, she removes the lock and unbuckles the collar, and we have a kiss before resuming our trip to the front door of her workplace.

To borrow an expression from Serving B's comment to my last post, it extends the roller coaster ride just a little longer, and it will make the wait for the next ride just a little bit shorter.

And it makes you wonder... once fall and winter come along, if you go into a public venue with, let's say 200 people, how many might be there be with locked leather collars or locked leather cuffs or eternity-type collars/bracelets/anklets or with locked chastity devices on?


  1. Or nipple clamps. Mustn't forget how nicely a bulky sweater covers those lovely items, with the added weight of the sweater on top of them being yet another bonus for those of us who like to know their subs are wearing a painful reminder of she who attached them.

  2. Lady Grey,

    Oh most definitely... going out with my Goddess with the tension of nipple clamps reminding me of her control, her dominance, her ownership... tugging with every move, every step... with her sneaking a hand under the sweater for a little sadistic pull while nobody is looking... absolutely intoxicating...

    Got that little overwhelming feeling of anticipatory edginess just thinking about it.

    Thank you for dropping by and adding to the wonderfully BDSM-y things that the cooler weather brings along.


  3. Oh my, "anticipatory edginess" just rolls off the page - and into my mind. You are a poet, Dymion:)

  4. Thank you for the complement. I can never say no to flattery...

    Sometimes just the right words come to mind when we need to express something. And sometimes they don't. This time they did. I'm glad you felt them.


  5. SerenaDante,

    Thanks for dropping by, and welcome to our blog. So which thoughts did you think were interesting? Was that a good or a bad thing for you? Why?

    Just curious...


  6. Married Domme,

    Thank you! We definitely appreciate your compliment, coming from someone who has one of the hottest blogs out there.

    Thank you for dropping by!


  7. I like the feel of always wearing a collar. One of my collars is very thin. It is something I can wear under a shirt with no one being aware of it. It may seam strange to many people, but wearing Kathy's collar gives me a feel of security.


  8. I really love the presence of bondage collar or leather collars. I love to see my significant other wearing it.