"... when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."
-- When Harry met Sally

"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed."
-- Carl Jung

Monday, August 30, 2010

Little moments of benevolent sadism (E)

Artwork courtesy of http://snail.meilk.com/ via http://lunarblack.tumblr.com

1. marked by or disposed to doing good;
organized for the purpose of doing good
2. marked by or suggestive of goodwill
~ http://www.merriam-webster.com/

1. sexual perversion in which gratification is obtained by the infliction of physical or mental pain on others (as on a love object)...
2. delight in cruelty
~ http://www.merriam-webster.com/

A pull of my hair at the movie theater... while we wait for the feature movie to start...

My Goddess placing locked wrist and ankle cuffs on me... just to have me struggle walking around and serving her...

Her nails digging into the inside of my thigh... in the car, as I'm driving us back home from some shopping...

My Goddess pulling me in close for a deep, sealed kiss... and exhaling a full drag of her cigarette into my mouth... as we take a short break outside...

Her fingers reaching up to my nipples for a little NT... in public or not... just to make sure my attention is on her....

My Goddess keeping me in bondage... as we watch some of her favorite TV shows together...

A hard slap on my backside any time she walks by...

My Goddess sitting onto my lower back when I'm resting or sleeping on my belly... and reaching around with her hands for some NT, her weight keeping me in position...

CBT waking me up in the morning... her nails scratching, stretching, and marking the skin of my privates... just to start the day with a little hurt...

My Goddess grabbing one of the D-rings of my locked leather collar... pulling it to her sacred feminine parts... and without a word, expecting sexual servitude that will quench the hunger of the moment...


  1. Some people daydream about flowers or music or palm trees swaying in the breeze. Nice to see you have your priorities straight.

  2. Lady Grey,
    Those little moments come often enough on a daily basis that I never have to daydream for very long... :)


  3. Hot, hot, hot and such a different perspective for me being a female sub. I find it fascinating, and totally HOT!

  4. Mimi,

    Thanks for your comments, and welcome to our blog.

    Gender variations in D/s dynamics can indeed provide us with very different perspectives that can, in turn, give us with new ways of understanding our own similar context.

    I'm so glad you enjoyed that.