"... when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."
-- When Harry met Sally

"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed."
-- Carl Jung

Saturday, June 23, 2012

New collar (E)

My new locking rubber collar, with my ever-present Eternity Collar below

My Goddess and I received a new collar for me this week: a superb locking rubber collar, higher and firmer than my usual leather collars. Despite being more rigid and more severe than the leather collars I have worn on a daily basis, it is still surprisingly comfortable, if more restrictive.

My Goddess loved it right away. There is something ironic about how a more imposing collar creates an impression of even greater submission. Upon first seeing it, she admired its more "ornamental" appearance. I think she enjoyed that it did not only serve very functional and symbolic purposes, but it also had a beauty to it, somehow enhancing my submissiveness in how decorative it looked.

She is clearly also quite enamored with the delightful ringing sounds the four attached rings produce with my every movement. My Goddess has "a thing" for watching me, or hearing me, being submissive around the house. Dominant entertainment, I guess...

On my side, I am glad to wear a piece with such symbolism that brings my Goddess enjoyment. Inevitably, this increases even further her sense of dominance and control over me. The latter, of course, makes me feel ever more submissive and subservient to her. The ying-and-yang of ownership and belonging...

Image courtesy of Make Me Yours via Girls Rule, Subs Drool

Since I must always be wearing a locking collar at home, and on some outings when circumstances allow, I know that it will see a fair amount of use. The daily collaring is one of our favorite rituals, and now there is a new collar in the rotation. My Goddess has made me wear the new locking rubber collar ever since it has come in. I know it is not the end of the leather collars, however, since we both love and enjoy them so much.

The purpose of this piece was for me to have a collar that was easier to clean after a long day (or two... or three...) of domestic duties around the house. In fact, I could even take a shower with this thick rubber collar on without needing my Goddess to remove it. We both very much love my locking leather collars, but I always have misgivings about doing heavier work and breaking a sweat while wearing them. And cleaning leather collars can be a tedious process.

Now depending on plans for how I may best serve her, my Goddess can select the collar of her choice, and leave it on me, locked, for as long as she wants. Or until I need to go in to work...

Image courtesy of Under Feet via Girls Rule, Subs Drool


  1. So...does your new collar leave marks on your neck after wearing it for 3 days straight? If so, how do you explain the marks...if you do.

  2. Anonymous,

    While I haven't worn the rubber collar for three consecutive days yet, I have worn it Thursday and Friday (evening & overnight), and most of yesterday and today. As expected, the rigidity and heaviness of the collar has left some slight abrasion marks (2 areas) at the bottom of my neck.

    But there is no need for explanations... the abrasion areas are very close to where my Eternity Collar normally rests, and my choices of T-shirt and collared shirt for work are made to cover the Eternity Collar. Nobody will see the abrasion marks apart from my Goddess. And she's always turned-on by any marking of my body due that is due to our D/s activities.

    Hope that answers your questions. Thanks for taking the time to drop-by and comment.

    All the best to you.


  3. Seems practical and easier to clean after getting wet but I wonder if it is rigid after long use or does it adapt to your neck contour?

  4. Dave,

    Thanks for stopping by and for leaving a comment. And welcome to our blog!

    Having had it for less than a week, I can't tell how much it will give over weeks and months, but I get the impression that it won't. And it certainly doesn't over 12-18 hours. The rubber is really quite rigid, and it has a good thickness to it. Part of it charm and severity!

    All the best to you!