"BTW, I expect a collar on you every night when you get home - MINE! Not the usual one, but you have others to choose from".
~ Handwritten note left on my pillow when I came back home the day that my Goddess left for her business trip.
Every day when I came back home, after placing a leather collar around my neck, I took a picture and texted it to her, showing her that it was on, that I was home, and the time I had returned. I kept it on until I had to shower for work the next morning.
The reference to "the usual one" is about the traditional locking leather collar that only my Goddess can place around my neck, lock, and unlock. I am forbidden to handle that one in any way except offering to her.
The reference to "Mine!" is about who I belong to.
Upon her return from her trip, my Goddess found me wearing an alternate collar, which pleased her. But she rapidly had me fetch the locking leather one, and changed out the collars. The click of the lock on the usual collar was so immensely satisfying for both of us.
The joys of control at a distance! Such simple gestures, such deep symbolism. She is just the hottest!