"... when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible."
-- When Harry met Sally

"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances; if there is any reaction, both are transformed."
-- Carl Jung

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

The Magical Mystical Strap On (S)

I'd like to share some thoughts on Strap-On play. This particular kink has been heavily on my mind recently as I am proud to say dymion and I officially wore out our first Bumble Bee Strap-On (RIP, dear friend) and had to purchase a second a couple of days ago. I hope it will get some use in the coming weekend.

Some may feel strap-on play primarily provides a sexual thrill, but it is much more to me. Yes, it is HOT, but there is additional depth to it with the right sub...

I had never really considered strap-on play until Dymion and I began pushing BDSM limits. It was something neither of us had ever experienced and his description of the symbolism behind such an act made it extremely appealing to me. Have you ever had those scenes that are beyond description? Strap-On play is rarely NOT on the list of overwhelming experiences. Nevertheless, even though I know I will never find quite the right words, as I have tried expressing these feelings many times before, I still want to share...

Taking Dymion in that way is so powerful. It is a symbol of my ownership of him and his willingness to give me anything and everything he has. When I enter him, I completely get lost in his sounds, movements, and the overall feeling of control and intimacy. I find myself moving harder and faster because I need more of his reactions. Our breath seems be in sync, our bodies become a single entity, and we must continue on...go deeper...push farther to maintain the feeling...that beautiful feeling that we create together in that moment. Even when the scene is over, I replay it, dream of it, and yearn to experience it again.

I highly recommend the Strap-On experience to anyone who understands the thrill and potential emotional impact of the power exchange. I love so many things that Dymion and I have incorporated into our play, but this is definitely a favorite for both of us.

2 comments:

  1. We have a Feeldoe, and I love it! It's definitely hot play, and I love the way he responds when I use it on him.

    nakeysub's Mistress.

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  2. Dear nakeysub's Mistress,

    Welcome to our blog, and thank you for your thoughts.

    We've heard a lot about the Feeldoe, and it's definitely in our future. We've tried some strapless alternatives, but none yet that have been great, or anywhere close to the CE Bumble Bee. Well, not for my Goddess, in any case.

    Keep up the good work on your own blog. We follow it closely and enjoy very much.

    Dymion

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