tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4055527051829569614.post1688604662646702101..comments2023-10-31T07:53:05.095-07:00Comments on Domination, Submission, and Love in Life & Dreams: Coffee and clamps! (E)Selena and Dymionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03340191690589690887noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4055527051829569614.post-76585944766261497232011-10-11T04:45:14.157-07:002011-10-11T04:45:14.157-07:00Maui Girl,
Yes, you are a masochist! You know you...Maui Girl,<br /><br />Yes, you are a masochist! You know you're a masochist when you run to somebody and tell them, "I just found out how you can hurt me even more! Let's try this!" lol<br /><br />It warms our hearts to hear that you will follow our blog. Hopefully you will find in it understanding, inspiration, and hope. It's a long and rocky road to bring someone into the lifestyle, and it's even more challenging doing it from the bottom. But with great communications, a good sense of exploration on both sides, and some gentle experimentation to find out dislikes, likes, and loves, it is possible to eventually get into good D/s relational dynamics.<br /><br />Good luck... and play safe!<br /><br />DymionSelena and Dymionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03340191690589690887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4055527051829569614.post-42403911724753815762011-10-11T04:37:47.649-07:002011-10-11T04:37:47.649-07:00Dear Lady Grey,
How wonderful of you to drop by a...Dear Lady Grey,<br /><br />How wonderful of you to drop by again. And it's good to see you have an "appreciation" for the whimper that is very similar to Selena's. The two of you really do have much in common.<br /><br />I can definitely vouch for the clamp re-setting practice. We don't do it often because once the nipples have gotten a bit swollen from the initial clamping, it may be more challenging to set them in a new position where they won't slip. Generally, my Goddess likes to know they are on securely, and she enjoys both the visuals of me wearing them, and the knowledge that over the next hour or two (yes...) they will increasingly become more painful. Until such a time she can tell in my face I'm about to beg for her to remove them.<br /><br />On the other hand, my Goddess has sometimes switched from the clover clamps to the alligator clamps in mid-play. Wow! The escalation of pain is indescribable. And obviously, no slippage.<br /><br />Thank you for sharing. And you can see by the previous comment, someone else has picked up on your advice too!<br /><br />DymionSelena and Dymionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03340191690589690887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4055527051829569614.post-68018544597628609912011-10-10T16:01:02.258-07:002011-10-10T16:01:02.258-07:00Dymion: Thanks for your kind words about my blog....Dymion: Thanks for your kind words about my blog. I'll enjoy following yours (with jealousy in a good way, of course). And perhaps I'll mention Lady Grey's suggestion to my husband, masochist that I am. :)maui girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17493492596306169981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4055527051829569614.post-20584546717866614292011-10-09T06:40:47.532-07:002011-10-09T06:40:47.532-07:00Yes, I understand the attraction of the "whim...Yes, I understand the attraction of the "whimper". I do so admire a sub's willingness to accept the pain of nipple clamp torture for his Dom, and my husband Karl has reached the point where he can bear a lot more of such pain than he could when we first met. His threshold is very admirable, and I enjoy going beyond it enough to produce that lovely whimper. Twisting and pulling are part of the process. <br /><br />I've probably mentioned this before, but I find that if I remove the clamps after about 15 minutes, wait 30 seconds, and put them back on in a slightly different position, the pain increases dramatically. Karl assures me that it's a geometric progression, and if the entire clamp session goes on for an hour or so of this, well the whimpers can be quite fascinating. At least for me. You might want to mention this to Selena:)Lady Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10795130564028111447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4055527051829569614.post-63015120211322111802011-10-09T06:05:02.938-07:002011-10-09T06:05:02.938-07:00Maui Girl,
Thank you for dropping by, and for the...Maui Girl,<br /><br />Thank you for dropping by, and for the kind words!<br /><br />Indeed, there's something that blows US away about the D/s flow of our relational dynamics for which we are thankful every single day. It doesn't mean that things like work or health don't sometimes get in the way, but we try to make the best of it every day.<br /><br />BTW, I found your blog very engaging, and I will definitely list it in our blogroll next time I get a chance to update our links.<br /><br />DymionSelena and Dymionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03340191690589690887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4055527051829569614.post-49274235290691996782011-10-08T16:05:03.653-07:002011-10-08T16:05:03.653-07:00I recently found your blog and am really blown awa...I recently found your blog and am really blown away by the ease and intimacy of your relationship. How lucky you two are to have found each other. :)maui girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17493492596306169981noreply@blogger.com